Relationship MYTH type # 1
The Cinderella/Prince Charming Story-
So, your date was, in your brain, the cutest/coolest/nicest thing on Earth.
You fell so in love that you couldn’t think of being with another person ever again.
You were the happiest human ever.
Nobody could have convinced you that you weren’t going to be happy forever with that person.
You then got married and didn’t even keep your fingers crossed and hoped for the best because you “knew” that there was no other person on Earth that you could be happier with. Forget about cloud 9, you were on cloud 11!
The fact is that you felt totally in love with and illusion, with a false version of a person that you conceived in your mind based on looks, on what your love partner ‘sold’ you to win you over or, worst of all, on what you wanted her/him to be.
You, dear, overlooked or dismissed all red flags and saw him/her as the perfect partner for you.
You probably suffer from the "I'll be happy when" paradigm (just like I did) and you might not even know what truly makes you happy either.
And sometimes you feel exhausted, empty, depleted, but you keep dreaming of someone wonderful and hope that one day he/she is going to show up on your radar!
I know exactly how you feel because I am a Relationship Myth # 1 too! I used to preach and swear by that myth for many, many years until I realized that it was just that; it’s what I call the “Cinderella Story hoax” (Yes, a HOAX! and I'll tell you more about it later).
The good news is that when you discover which Relationship Myth Type you are, and then learn what’s truly holding you back, you can resolve the relationship stories that got you looking for, attracting and marrying the wrong person, and finally take control of your love and relationship life.
I’ll be sending you MYTH # 2 tomorrow.
Keep an eye on your inbox since you might be more than one Relationship Myth Type!
Meanwhile, I hope that you go to sleep tonight feeling a little happier and that tomorrow you feel much happier than today.
Nanybel, UNEDITED!
So, your date was, in your brain, the cutest/coolest/nicest thing on Earth.
You fell so in love that you couldn’t think of being with another person ever again.
You were the happiest human ever.
Nobody could have convinced you that you weren’t going to be happy forever with that person.
You then got married and didn’t even keep your fingers crossed and hoped for the best because you “knew” that there was no other person on Earth that you could be happier with. Forget about cloud 9, you were on cloud 11!
The fact is that you felt totally in love with and illusion, with a false version of a person that you conceived in your mind based on looks, on what your love partner ‘sold’ you to win you over or, worst of all, on what you wanted her/him to be.
You, dear, overlooked or dismissed all red flags and saw him/her as the perfect partner for you.
You probably suffer from the "I'll be happy when" paradigm (just like I did) and you might not even know what truly makes you happy either.
And sometimes you feel exhausted, empty, depleted, but you keep dreaming of someone wonderful and hope that one day he/she is going to show up on your radar!
I know exactly how you feel because I am a Relationship Myth # 1 too! I used to preach and swear by that myth for many, many years until I realized that it was just that; it’s what I call the “Cinderella Story hoax” (Yes, a HOAX! and I'll tell you more about it later).
The good news is that when you discover which Relationship Myth Type you are, and then learn what’s truly holding you back, you can resolve the relationship stories that got you looking for, attracting and marrying the wrong person, and finally take control of your love and relationship life.
I’ll be sending you MYTH # 2 tomorrow.
Keep an eye on your inbox since you might be more than one Relationship Myth Type!
Meanwhile, I hope that you go to sleep tonight feeling a little happier and that tomorrow you feel much happier than today.
Nanybel, UNEDITED!